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A parent with dementia is wandering

Wandering is one of the most frightening parts of dementia, and one of the most common. Here is how to keep your parent safe now, and how to know when home is no longer enough.

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The Alzheimer's Association estimates that six in ten people living with dementia will wander at least once, and many do it repeatedly. It often starts with getting lost on a familiar walk or trying to "go home" while already at home.

Keep them safe this week

  • Put locks or slide bolts high or low on outside doors, out of the usual line of sight, and add door chimes.
  • Hide car keys if they should no longer be driving.
  • Keep a recent photo and a list of places they used to go, and enroll in an ID bracelet program.
  • Plan activity and a walk together at the time of day they usually get restless.
  • If they go missing, search the immediate area right away and call 911 quickly. Do not wait.

When home is no longer safe

If your parent has left the house at night, gotten lost more than once, or the family caregiver is no longer sleeping because they are listening for the door, it is time to look at memory care. In California, a home that cares for people with dementia must follow specific dementia care rules, and a home that secures its doors needs additional approval from the Department of Social Services.

A large community or a small home?

Some people do best in a secure memory care unit with walking paths and structured activities. Others are calmer in a small board and care home with the same few caregivers every day. We know which homes in LA County are set up for residents who wander, and we confirm their approvals before you visit.

Reviewed October 2, 2026. General information, not medical or legal advice. Talk with your loved one's doctor about their health.

Questions families ask

Is a board and care home safe for someone who wanders?

It can be, if the home is approved to care for residents with dementia, has the right door security, and has staff awake at night. Not every home qualifies, and we check.

Will memory care stop the wandering?

Not always. A good memory care setting makes walking safe instead of trying to stop it, with secure doors, staff who notice restlessness early, and a routine that reduces it.

What does memory care cost in Los Angeles?

Memory care communities typically run $7,629 to $9,000 a month in LA County. A board and care home that accepts residents with dementia often costs less.

Tell us about your situation

We will call you back the same business day. There is no cost to your family. The care home pays our placement fee.

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